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What is Love Anyway??

People fall in love on a daily bases-or so it seems,and the next minute they are out of it. Question is does love really exist,or is it mistaken for infatuation or lust? According to Wikipedia; 'Infatuation is so short lived that most often one is over it before it blossoms into love. Although sometimes it does develop into real love. But infatuation fades when one's head is no more in the clouds and the illusion of infatuation inevitably leads to disappointment,when learning the truth about a lover fizzles out'.                         

Infatuation is so common among the youths and can be viewed as puppy love or idol love,which often leads to having a crush on an individual and sometimes the object of desire might be stalked. A infatuated person most often is so admiring of the object of interest that he/she tends to see only the virtues of such a person,he/she is usually not realistic,it is this protection and total believe in such virtues that sets love apart from infatuation. Love on the other encompasses the ability to trust and understand,have a willingness to make sacrifices for one another,been able to compromise so that each persons opinion is not swept under the carpet and accept and correct each others flaws,while reaching or striving for greater heights as a couple. An infatuated individual is in a constant state of all consuming euphoria,stupidity, has loss of ability to make rational evaluation of what is true,valuable and worthy.........To be continued

Curly Mya - The New One That Broke Caroline's Home Set to Marry Musa Danjuma

Naija Gist Live served an update on Mya Hassan - the lady who broke Caroline Dajuma's home.  Photos of her posing with Musa's house and his infamous burgundy Rolls Royce.

NGL  reported they had followed her instagram page before she blocked it from public.  She privately tried to lie that the pregnancy was for footballer Diafra Sakho - a guy who had been arrested before on trying to beat Mya, likely when he found out  that she was pregnant for Musa Danjuma - punching her in the belly.

According to SDK, Mya whose family resides in Abuja-Nigeria wants their daughter to be married, before the baby is born, has smittened lover boy Musa - fixed next week for a formalised meeting on the next steps towards a wedding/marriage.

It's Over between Caroline and Musa Danjuma

This is breaking news culled from SDK Blog, Nigerian Shipping magnate, Musa Danjuma and his 2nd wife Caroline Danjuma may have called time on their 10 year marriage.

SDK broke the news on her blog with information from trusted sources that the marriage had packed up before their 3rd child (a girl) was born.  It was said that Caroline was fighting a lost battle - trying to save her marriage due to several philandering allegations against Musa.

Some key takes from the news on SDK are as follows:

• Musa has gotten Maya, a Nigerian based in the UK pregnant
• Caroline has done her bit fighting for the marriage - each time she gets rid of a mistress, a new one pops up
• The marriage produced 3 children - 2 boys and a girl.  The marriage had already hit rock bottom before the girl was born
• Musa and Caroline currently live like strangers in the house pending divorce porceedings
• Maya sleeps in Caroline's matrimonial bed whenever Caroline is out of town (country)
• Maya can't wait for Caroline is move out - so she can move in

Caroline is said to have moved on and now focuses on her business being a make-up artist as well as an actress - which had been her long-term career - before her marriage to Musa

Below was her post from her instagram account - which she's deleted.

Man dumps 'cheating girlfriend' on Valentine's day- he's got loads of evidence

A man who claims his girlfriend was cheating on him took his revenge by giving her a Valentine's Day card filled with evidence.

Kyle Boggess, from California, claimed he had found his girlfriend of two weeks on Plenty Of Fish after he created a fake profile to catch her out.

Kyle then filmed a Valentine's surprise with rose petals and gifts before blindfolding the woman. In the footage he gives her the card, telling her 'that's you cheating on me' as her expression changes.

In the video, Kyle is seen guiding the woman up the stairs while her eyes are covered, he then tells her she should move the blindfold up so 'she can see a little bit'.

The room is covered with rose petals and a toy elephant is holding a card which reads 'Valentine's Day Sucks'. The boyfriend said: 'If I can't spend it with you, it definitely sucks'.

After she takes off the blindfold, he tells her there is still more to come. He said: 'It's a big surprise you're going to love it. You might be a little mad at me about it. I did something bad.'

The blonde woman is laughing along and Kyle tells her to put the blindfold back on so it will be a 'surprise'.

Kyle explained he made a card for her and told her to remove the blindfold to see a file with A4 paper inside, which Kyle claims were print-outs of her arranging dates on Plenty Of Fish.

Kyle said: 'That's you cheating on me, so get the f*** out of my house right now.

'I'm glad you took the car here for an hour for no good reason and this is going on YouTube sweetheart.'

he woman replied she didn't care and Kyle and his brother, who also filmed her reaction, call her a w**** and b**** repeatedly.

Kyle had created the Plenty Of Fish account himself after growing suspicious.

He claimed when he posted the video on Facebook: 'My "girlfriend" was being shady. I made a fake Plenty Of Fish account and she told that account she was single, had no luck with guys blah blah blah.' 

He claimed she made plans with him over the fake profile.

Culled from Dailymail

ModeMen Publisher Is Engaged

Abubakar Tafawa-Balewa, grandson of one of Nigeria's founding fathers' Sir Abubakar Tafawa-Balewa is off the market! Sorry ladies *wink wink*. His grandfather's portrait at the background

Culled from Facebook, the ModeMen Mag. Publisher posted: To God be the Glory... She said 'Yes!! Thanks Everyone!!

 A huge congratulations to them

IVY True Life: How I Met My Spouse

At IvyTrotterChick, we are introducing a new segment called IVY True Life, where we celebrate people's life, journeys, meeting partners and much more.

We'll like to thank Michael for sending us his story

The first time I saw her, I was buying soya-beans in a public market in Ilorin Kwara State of Nigeria, I remember glancing over at her and thinking,Oh, wow, she’s dope. 

When I finished  buying my stuff I turned around and I saw her moving towards me immediately my thought started acclimating; how awesome would it be if she ended up next to me?Sure enough, she hit at me by asking for a direction and I gladly did, she thanked me and left.

7months later I saw her at the airport again we were sitting at the gate for our flight to Abuja then later boarded, When I got to my seat, a family on my row wanted to sit together so the flight attendant asked if I could take the empty seat beside her, so I joyfully did. Thou I was very shy to talk to her at first but she help my situation by asking me if we had met before.

We spent the entire flight discussing everything. And then, the flight landed. She asked for my number that she would call me and we went our separate ways. I was certain I would never hear from her again.

I thought about her often, but eventually she faded into the ‘missed connections’ category. A few months later, out of the blue, she sent me [a message that said] ‘Happy New Year.’ We hit it off like nothing ever changed.

We’ve been married for three years now and have two children...

Egwudah Michael, from Ilorin Kwara State of Nigeria.. 08035530434

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Joe Jonas does a Zayn Malik?

According to TMZ, Joe Jonas spotted a new bleach blond hair do on Wednesday night in LA and bears a striking resemblance to Zayn Malik's.

Why this seem weird is that Zayn is now dating Joe's ex, Gigi Hadid.  This look certainly aint  co-incidence.
Any way - who do you think wore it better?

Paternity Test? What Paternity Test

Louis and Danielle

1D fans are probably petrified right now! Lousi Tomlinson one of the quartet of  the present day One Direction ( exit Zayn Malik), was so convinced  he is the dad of little baby Freddie - the son he's had with ex-girlfriend Briana Jungwirth, he decided against a paternity test.

The 24 year old ladies' man briefly dated the briefly last year, and their son, Freddie , arrived last month.  However, pals revealed the One Direction heartthrob never took a test to check the boy was his.  Meanwhile, it's been claimed Brianna, 24, has been upset at the sight  of Louis celebrating new flame Danielle Campbell's 21st birthday in LA this week.

Iman Steps out - Dog Takes Lead from David

David Bowie's widow - Iman walks her dog, which - like her late husband - has one blue eye.  The model looked poised and stunning as she strolled through snowy streets near her home in Manhattan.

Sex Spritzer by ES: Men, moaning, and emotion in the bedroom - 7 points to consider

I feel as men we tend to focus on our partner and her pleasure in the bedroom.

So when the time comes for our own orgasm or release there can be a "let's get it over with" attitude with little focus on pleasure and enjoyment.

We say that it is important for the woman to communicate with her partner and let him know what she likes verbally and through her moans. While some women may find it hard to express themselves verbally, for many, moaning and emotional exclamations of pleasure come naturally. 

But what about men and moaning? I feel that some men don't moan at all because it is just not macho. I know I felt that way many years ago. If you look at romantic movies in the mainstream there are very few examples of the man moaning, but I am sure many of us can remember ones where the woman does like in the movie "When Harry Met Sally". I had a very understanding partner years ago and she encouraged me to moan, breathe, and express my emotion during sex. It really helped my sex life and I had much better orgasms. 

I know I feel very good and happy when my partner has an orgasm. Women have similar excitement an happiness when they know they are pleasing their partner. So telling your woman what she is doing feels good is like giving her a compliment. Your moaning also lets her know she is doing well, is a turn on for some women, and can lead to mutual orgasms. 

Every man is different but here are a few reasons why I did not moan. I thought my moaning sounds were weird and showed a sign of weakness. I wondered if my partner would be distracted or turned off by it. I did not think men were supposed to moan. 

Moaning is an expression of emotion. It is okay and helpful to express your emotion in the bedroom as a man. Here are a few tips to get into moaning:

1. Set aside a time where the woman just focuses on the man and bringing him to orgasm. 

2. On the way to orgasm, have the man focus on his breathing, talk about what feels good, and encourage him to moan. 

3. Take your time and perhaps bring him to the edge and stop a few times before bringing about release and orgasm. This will cause a buildup and help the man feel more comfortable about moaning and maybe even forget he is doing it.

4. Release:  At the point of orgasm let yourself go. I call it release because it is a release of tension, pleasure, but also emotion. If you feel like screaming out, do it. Let your body go and ride the wave. 

5. Not everyone gets to this point, but the release of emotion has to be allowed. As you are about to release let your thoughts flow forward to your lips. What comes out is usually very emotional. "You look so hot leaning over me like that!"  "Oh my God I love the sound of your voice!" "I love you so much!" Then when you release the emotion flows with it and in some cases it is very intense, maybe including tears.

6. Once you have done this a few times and feel comfortable, try it during intercourse and other sex play. 

7. Be yourself and do what is comfortable. You can moan soft, medium, loud or all the above, don't stop yourself, let it flow. If moaning is not comfortable, focus more on the breathing and letting go. As a minimum trying 1-6 above will certainly be fun.   

The bottom line is moaning is a form of communication. For great sex, I suggest men do it too.

T-Squared 2016

On air personality (OAP) Tolu Oniru popularly known as Toolz married her fiance Capt Tunde Demuren today, below are some shots from the wedding...

Ciaras' Boo and his sweet words

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Memphis Depay ( Man U player) now dating Steve Harvey's step daughter

Deepay a Manchester United winger recently revealed he is in love with famous on air personality's (Steve Harvey) step daughter Lori Harvey. Deepay recently made this known on his IG page where he posted a romantic picture of them both kissing in Paris.  

The Blast From The Past - It's All Good

 

Oscar was not so lucky,selling coke and heroine gave him lots of money,girls,power and a sense of belonging(being an orphan), and a high he found difficult to get down from,of course he tried out his products once in a while and an addition was just waiting to happen. Well he did get addicted and would have just ended up being a number in the statistics of people who ended up wasted by drugs,but somehow he got saved.                        

Amy was an occasional user,she likes to think of herself as a social user of drugs,she has a grip on how and when she wants to get high-which thankfully is not often and so she has much more control of her life. When she met Oscar,she was out of a relationship and was intrigued by him,when u strip his shady deals,drug selling and usage he was quite a fun and nice enough guy,not violent and almost a gentleman considering his trade. She it was that saved him from himself,and only God knows what and how he would have ended if she where not there for him.

New Dating Apps to Test ????

Get in here - new dating apps on fleek :)

Lowdown - This new dating app delivers you one match per day chosen by special 'matchmakers'. These are people who have been trained to try and  match you based on your profile.    It also matches according toy your heartbeat.

The Unique Selling Point - You need a smartwatch or FitBit so that when you sync your device with the app, it will show whether your heartbeat raises when you look at a particular profile

Lowdown - Famous for being part of sex life, Ann Summers is now aiming to part of your dating life with the launch of Rabbit.

The Unique Selling Point - Rabbit uses what the brand is calling 'fuzzy logic', so your location is not used or shared.  When a woman gets a match request, before she accepts, there is an option to send a "Tell Me More' question to the guy.  The ethis of the app is much like that of the brand - about empowering women to be in control of their love lives.

Dating sites and apps .............some we may not know?

Last month, we brought you an insight into selected 8 dating apps and sites.  If you missed it, HERE it is again.

2015 didn't go by without some new dating apps croping up on us.  Here are 3 unique ones and their offerings

Hinge

Released in  2013 and been in several countries globally, the app has matched more tahn a million people up,  however, probably at the time of this writing, waiting for the 1st Hinge wedding.  Hinge works by showing profiles of single people nearby, and only matches you with friends of friends or third -degree connections.

It was reported in the news sometime in May 2015, that almost 500 men left the dating app when the company behind the app revealed that it had introduced a new feature which informs users whether a prospective date is already in a relationship, by publishing details from their Facebook information.  This feature enables users to catch potential cheaters.  Good job Hinge !!!


The League

This app here is  de-la-creme of dating apps.  An elitist and highly selective dating app for successful singles is surely not meant for everyone.  It prides itself as the 'Tinder for Elites'.  The app was launched in San Francisco early 2015, and is gaining wide spread globally.

It's hard to get into the app - the only way is by applying to a long waiting list of over 100 000.  Potential joiners are screened and selected based on their education and professional history. Once you're part of the league, its members receive five new matches everyday at 5pm - the 'happy hour'.  The app is linked to LinkedIn the professional networking site

Fliqpic

A video dating app which allows real time and text chat.  Users swear it's a lot better as you can see the person you're matched with , chat and see if chemistry develops.  It helps to eliminate potential 'catfish' and you can get to know the matches pretty quickly

Lolade's Corner: Blast from the past; so far so good

 

........so how could he resist the lure of selling coke,it introduced him to new and unwanted sets of friends-of all characters one could think of, it brought in fast money-as a result the girls were ready and easily available to him,it showed him the way of the world and how rotten one could get through it,but thank God, he had his head screwed on the right way.

He was smart enough not to sniff the stuff, afterall he could see first hand how people got addicted to the stuff,got ruined and broken by the stuff.

Jake was wise enough not to find out it's primary source,all he wanted to do was buy and sell the stuff,so that he could help his family and have a little on the side for girls and friends. 

How he eventually got out of selling the white stuff and moving on with his life was nothing short of a miracle.

Thinking back once in a while he shudders to think the risk he put himself through and the way he might have ended up if he had not made a quick break for it as soon as he could get a much more decent means of livelihood...............to be continued

Lolade's Corner: Secrets

........April has been dating Jason for almost a year now,and she is terrified of the day he would realize that she had been telling him a lot of half truths. 
             

When she and Jason met she was already a self made woman,of cause she came from a comfortable home but she had always wanted to be very rich, so much so that she detested depending on anyone-afterall if she were that independent no man could boss,belittle her,be a chauvinist,or even physically abuse her!
        

So being the intelligent girl that she was, in order to make quick cash she got involved in internet hacking and boy did she get rich!       

She was wise enough to spread her money through various banks, some which she converted to stocks and bonds, with substantial shares in some blue chip companies, she also has a few houses in choice areas, if you are not a close confidant of hers, you would never guess her real worth and she is suave enough to be in discreet in the display of her wealth.   
                   

Jason is your average hard working middle class guy, he is a hard worker and does not believe you have to go through short cuts to achieve the wealth you want.                       

Almost six foot tall,with a physique that gives you an impression of workouts in the gym. Jason is not a chauvinist, could hold his own and is an good dresser, so why couldn't she have him for keeps?         
                 

April was not ready to let him go (if ever) and she knew, if he should find out she made her wealth thru an unclean means, he might make a run out of her life.

To be continued.................

  

Oh My Days..................... Lollll

Top Tips To Set You On Your Way To Dating Happiness

According to Dating expert Susan Quilliam, here are the top tips to set your way to dating happiness

1. ASK Three friends to tell you what they think a partner would (should) adore about you, then use that to build your confidence

2. TO offset getting in a search rut, for every 20 profiles you see, contact one - even if they don't look promising.

3. TAKE a dating break - no sites, no apps, no meet-ups - to rediscover who you are.

4. ARRANGE to see someone you're not quite convinced about again.  Sometimes first-date nerves (yours or a  potential partner's)undermines chemistry - a second date will reveal the truth

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Nick Cannon Doesn't think Marriage is for Everyone

'I feel like marriage isn't for everyone,' says Nick Cannon, the American Got Talent host who was married to Mariah Carey, the superstar singer. 

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Sex Spritzer by ES: Woman & Orgasm

Every adult craves to experience orgasm with their partners - however, not all especially women get to experience it at all.  It's quite nice if a woman can orgasm during intercourse, below are a few tips I'll like to share:

1. Know your body. Before you can have an orgasm during intercourse, I suggest you learn your own body what turns you on, and perhaps have an orgasm outside of intercourse. This can be done by yourself or with a partner but it is very important to know what turns you on. 

2. Set the stage. With your partner get the bedroom set up so it is pleasing to the eye, smells nice, is the right temp, and put on some music you like. You want to be completely comfortable in the bedroom. The last thing you want is distractions from the room or the phone.

3. What is intercourse to you?  Think of all the wonderful things you enjoy from intercourse on an emotional level. His breath against your ear, his heart beating next to yours, the warmth of your bodies, holding him during orgasm and filling you up, etc. It can be a deep bonding experience even without your orgasm. Open yourself up to this energy.

4. Share yourself. The pleasure of release or orgasm is a wonderful thing. Nobody gets to see you release except your partner. You are sharing that pleasure with him by reaching orgasm with him inside you. Having him hold you during release and do things to help you release may cause you to feel vulnerable at first but it is really wonderful. It is like a gift.

5. The mind has to be turned on. For all of us men and women the mind is the biggest sex organ. If you get the mind turned on, the rest will easily follow. You can play a scenario, read an erotic book together, or watch a movie.

6. Try oral sex before. Have him go down on you first. He can get you close or give you an orgasm so you are ready to have another during intercourse. 

7. In general most women need clit stimulation.  If you look at a woman's anatomy the clit sits at the top of the vagina mainly outside under the hood. So it needs to rub against something for the woman to release. If the man is on top, he can move up so his pubic bone is rubbing on her clit while he is inside. Or if she is on top in the Cowgirl position she can grind her clit on him. If this is what will help the woman to release then do it.  Know it is okay for one person the woman or the man to manually play with the clit during intercourse. 

8. Talk, encourage, move. Remember to let your partner know when he is getting it right. If it feels good say so, but be yourself. Move your hips, your body, with your partner. Feel free to touch parts of his body that turn you on. You are taking this journey of pleasure together. Your movements will increase your own pleasure but also tell him you are enjoying yourself and want pleasure and release as much as he does. This is very important to most men.

9. Aftercare. Once you have had intercourse and are laying in each others arms, this is a good time for aftercare and pillow talk. You can tell him how wonderful something he did was so he will know to do it again. I had a girlfriend tell me 20 years ago, "Where did you learn that circular thrusting technique? That is awesome!" Men don't usually forget compliments and comments like that.

10. It is okay if it does not happen. It may take a while to orgasm during intercourse while for some women it may not happen at all. If it does not happen don't worry about it or make it that big of a deal.Trying too hard to make it happen may just leave you sad. Like I mentioned above, there is some great bonding during intercourse even without you both enjoying orgasm. Having and sharing pleasure with your partner is what is most important.

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Lolade's Corner: BLAST FROM THE PAST

The past should remain just there-in the past,but it does have a way of catching up with us.  Almost everyone has a past,they really wished they could wish away.

Traveling down memory lane is not a favorite pastime of a lot of people,especially if it conjures  some bad or embarrassing incidents.

Growing up was not fun for Jake,his family could barely survive,eating food was a luxury,clothing could only be obtain from samaritans who pass on their used clothes to the church for anyone that might be interested.

Thank God at least they could barely scrape enough to pay for shelter. Of course Jake loved his parents and his siblings were to die for,but how much could a young guy take?
Growing into adolescence meant a change in friends, a wider outlook on life, trying to acquire the swag look, meeting new and interesting girls, trying to better himself and his siblings too and of cause the ever present peer pressure that seems to proceed and en capsule adolescence.......to be continued

UBER COUPLES - The New Speed Dating?

Taxi app Uber recently launched a new 'pool' service, where you can share your cab journey with someone travelling in the same direction.  The side effect has been - in the US at least- that people are chatting each other up on late-night rides.

It's like speed-dating meets getting home - ten minutes with a stranger to chat to before they are on their way.

I think this is going to be a new way of dating as Uber expands this service to other countries where Uber currently operates in.

A Love Story

School friends who lost touch during world War II are set to marry 77 years later.

Rose James, 91, wrote to Ray Seal, 92, last april while he was living in America.

Romance blossomed and the pair are set to wed on May 7 in Market Harborough. Leicestershire. Ray said: 'Rose was a very pretty young girl and not much has changed.'

How sweet is that!!!

Crazy Drunk Girl 'Mocked By Student Sex Attacker'

The former secretary of Durham University's debating society mocked a fellow student after raping her, a court has been told.

According to the Metro Newspaper UK, Louis Richardson is accused of having sex with the woman at his home when she was 'crazy drunk' and unable to consent in March 2014.

The next morning he is said to have told her she was 'rubbish in bed because she was unresponsive', Durham crown court heard
the 21-year-old told police it was 'likely' they had sex after he saw her in Klute nightclub and took her back to his home.

He is also accused of lifting up her top at a friend's house saying: 'Oh get your t**s out...everyone else has seen them.'

Richardson is also charged with attacking another student at a house party in October 2014.  She fell ill and went to sleep in a bedroom but when she woke up to find a man with one hand on her breast and the other over her pants.
When she pushed him off, Paul Cleasby, prosecuting, said Richard replied; if you wanted me to stop you could have asked.'

The defendant, of St Helier, Jersey, denies one charge of rape and three sexual assault.  The trial continue.

Married Men Just Won't Stop......Sigh!!

I enjoyed watching this vlog by a Nigerian lady on how a married Indian guy working in Nigeria tried hitting on her.  Watch her vlog and hear his wife's reaction: Enjoy!!

Lasting Longer in Bed: 7 Tips For Women by Ivy BV

The article on Lasting Longer in Bed - 8 quick tips for men has been popularly read since we posted in November 2015.  If you missed it, HERE it is again for a quick read through.  

An important IvyTrotterChick Blog Visitior (Ivy BV) decided to give some tips on women.  We thought it's worth sharing as a post on it's own.

Here are some thoughts and tips for women in helping their man last longer in bed.

1. If your partner is having trouble lasting longer in bed, the best thing you can do is support him in a loving way. He will probably already feel bad, so do your best to make him feel better and that it does happen sometimes. Even better if he is able to talk to you about it and let you help out in several ways I list below. Most of all ladies do not blame yourself, you can help but it is not your fault.

2. What is your goal in intercourse? If it is mutual orgasm for example than you can help out by making sure he knows what pleases you, when you are getting close, etc. This is where you can really help, but you need to know your own body. If not, then explore with your partner, before intercourse. 

3. Get to know your man. While I see on TV and the internet how important it is for a man to know a woman's anatomy, I feel the same is true for women. Learn to give your man oral or manual stimulation and learn what turns him on. Watch him when he is getting close, and when he orgasms, all of those signs will be present during intercourse. But not just his penis, look at areas on his whole body and what turns him on.
Example: Firm pressure and up and down movement of a woman's hand on my penis will cause me to eventually orgasm. Not all guys are the same, but this is probably true for most men. So when they enter the woman for the first time she is naturally tight (the firm pressure) and begin thrusting (the same as the up and down movement) they are set up to orgasm fairly quickly. 

4. Once you learn what turns your man on, then you can use that knowledge to help him last longer. If he really enjoys your breasts, keep them in your lingerie until you are ready for him to orgasm. Regarding 3 above, have him enter you only after you are very wet, and you will not be as tight. Move your hips and do some side to side thrusting while he is deep inside. In this way there is less in/out movement so he will last longer. 

5. Positions. Explore different positions and you may find ones that he lasts longer than others. For me the doggie position is one I don't last too long at, so I avoid it until near the end of our play. The cowgirl position is great for the woman because she can be on top, control the thrusting, like side to side movement or grinding that I mentioned above. Also she can grab her man's balls and lightly pull them away from his body to help him last longer.

6. Maybe consider starting off with oral to orgasm. His 2nd orgasm will take much longer and cause him to last longer. Or have him give you an oral orgasm and then when he enters you, he is mind is at ease that the goal then is not mutual orgasm just his orgasm and you can use techniques above to help him last longer. 

7. Most of all communication is important. If you can talk about things it is much easier. There are so many things that he can do like cock rings and condoms that help but would be nice to have your approval and smile. It is all about pleasing someone you truly care for in the bedroom. It leads to some deep bonding I feel. 

ES


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Zayn Malik and Gigi Moving Too Fast??

Are Zayn Malik and Gigi Hadid - both popularly referred to as Zigi moving in together? According to US Media Tabloids, the couple could both be taken to the next level.  The new couple sparked speculations they could be moving in together after they were spotted hunting for apartments in New York on Monday afternoon.

Malik and Hadid stirred rumors they are ready to live under the same roof even after only a few months of dating.  According to reports, the pair were photographed visiting apartments that were available for rent along SoHo area.

Before the rumour mill gets into overdrive, a source told E!News that Malik and Hadid are not moving in together.  The source claimed they were just simply looking around for apartments and nothing more.  

The new couple have been open about their relationship since they were spotted holding hands while leaving a posh club in Los Angeles last year in December.  They continue to confirm their romance through their respective instagram accounts.

Zigi first grabbed the dating headlines when they were spotted hanging out several times in November at The Nice Guy in West Hollywood.  Malik was previously engaged to Little Mix singer - Perrie Edwards, and Hadid was in a relationship with Joe Jonas.