What is Love Anyway??

People fall in love on a daily bases-or so it seems,and the next minute they are out of it. Question is does love really exist,or is it mistaken for infatuation or lust? According to Wikipedia; 'Infatuation is so short lived that most often one is over it before it blossoms into love. Although sometimes it does develop into real love. But infatuation fades when one's head is no more in the clouds and the illusion of infatuation inevitably leads to disappointment,when learning the truth about a lover fizzles out'.                         

Infatuation is so common among the youths and can be viewed as puppy love or idol love,which often leads to having a crush on an individual and sometimes the object of desire might be stalked. A infatuated person most often is so admiring of the object of interest that he/she tends to see only the virtues of such a person,he/she is usually not realistic,it is this protection and total believe in such virtues that sets love apart from infatuation. Love on the other encompasses the ability to trust and understand,have a willingness to make sacrifices for one another,been able to compromise so that each persons opinion is not swept under the carpet and accept and correct each others flaws,while reaching or striving for greater heights as a couple. An infatuated individual is in a constant state of all consuming euphoria,stupidity, has loss of ability to make rational evaluation of what is true,valuable and worthy.........To be continued

Curly Mya - The New One That Broke Caroline's Home Set to Marry Musa Danjuma

Naija Gist Live served an update on Mya Hassan - the lady who broke Caroline Dajuma's home.  Photos of her posing with Musa's house and his infamous burgundy Rolls Royce.

NGL  reported they had followed her instagram page before she blocked it from public.  She privately tried to lie that the pregnancy was for footballer Diafra Sakho - a guy who had been arrested before on trying to beat Mya, likely when he found out  that she was pregnant for Musa Danjuma - punching her in the belly.

According to SDK, Mya whose family resides in Abuja-Nigeria wants their daughter to be married, before the baby is born, has smittened lover boy Musa - fixed next week for a formalised meeting on the next steps towards a wedding/marriage.

It's Over between Caroline and Musa Danjuma

This is breaking news culled from SDK Blog, Nigerian Shipping magnate, Musa Danjuma and his 2nd wife Caroline Danjuma may have called time on their 10 year marriage.

SDK broke the news on her blog with information from trusted sources that the marriage had packed up before their 3rd child (a girl) was born.  It was said that Caroline was fighting a lost battle - trying to save her marriage due to several philandering allegations against Musa.

Some key takes from the news on SDK are as follows:

• Musa has gotten Maya, a Nigerian based in the UK pregnant
• Caroline has done her bit fighting for the marriage - each time she gets rid of a mistress, a new one pops up
• The marriage produced 3 children - 2 boys and a girl.  The marriage had already hit rock bottom before the girl was born
• Musa and Caroline currently live like strangers in the house pending divorce porceedings
• Maya sleeps in Caroline's matrimonial bed whenever Caroline is out of town (country)
• Maya can't wait for Caroline is move out - so she can move in

Caroline is said to have moved on and now focuses on her business being a make-up artist as well as an actress - which had been her long-term career - before her marriage to Musa

Below was her post from her instagram account - which she's deleted.

Man dumps 'cheating girlfriend' on Valentine's day- he's got loads of evidence

A man who claims his girlfriend was cheating on him took his revenge by giving her a Valentine's Day card filled with evidence.

Kyle Boggess, from California, claimed he had found his girlfriend of two weeks on Plenty Of Fish after he created a fake profile to catch her out.

Kyle then filmed a Valentine's surprise with rose petals and gifts before blindfolding the woman. In the footage he gives her the card, telling her 'that's you cheating on me' as her expression changes.

In the video, Kyle is seen guiding the woman up the stairs while her eyes are covered, he then tells her she should move the blindfold up so 'she can see a little bit'.

The room is covered with rose petals and a toy elephant is holding a card which reads 'Valentine's Day Sucks'. The boyfriend said: 'If I can't spend it with you, it definitely sucks'.

After she takes off the blindfold, he tells her there is still more to come. He said: 'It's a big surprise you're going to love it. You might be a little mad at me about it. I did something bad.'

The blonde woman is laughing along and Kyle tells her to put the blindfold back on so it will be a 'surprise'.

Kyle explained he made a card for her and told her to remove the blindfold to see a file with A4 paper inside, which Kyle claims were print-outs of her arranging dates on Plenty Of Fish.

Kyle said: 'That's you cheating on me, so get the f*** out of my house right now.

'I'm glad you took the car here for an hour for no good reason and this is going on YouTube sweetheart.'

he woman replied she didn't care and Kyle and his brother, who also filmed her reaction, call her a w**** and b**** repeatedly.

Kyle had created the Plenty Of Fish account himself after growing suspicious.

He claimed when he posted the video on Facebook: 'My "girlfriend" was being shady. I made a fake Plenty Of Fish account and she told that account she was single, had no luck with guys blah blah blah.' 

He claimed she made plans with him over the fake profile.

Culled from Dailymail

ModeMen Publisher Is Engaged

Abubakar Tafawa-Balewa, grandson of one of Nigeria's founding fathers' Sir Abubakar Tafawa-Balewa is off the market! Sorry ladies *wink wink*. His grandfather's portrait at the background

Culled from Facebook, the ModeMen Mag. Publisher posted: To God be the Glory... She said 'Yes!! Thanks Everyone!!

 A huge congratulations to them

IVY True Life: How I Met My Spouse

At IvyTrotterChick, we are introducing a new segment called IVY True Life, where we celebrate people's life, journeys, meeting partners and much more.

We'll like to thank Michael for sending us his story

The first time I saw her, I was buying soya-beans in a public market in Ilorin Kwara State of Nigeria, I remember glancing over at her and thinking,Oh, wow, she’s dope. 

When I finished  buying my stuff I turned around and I saw her moving towards me immediately my thought started acclimating; how awesome would it be if she ended up next to me?Sure enough, she hit at me by asking for a direction and I gladly did, she thanked me and left.

7months later I saw her at the airport again we were sitting at the gate for our flight to Abuja then later boarded, When I got to my seat, a family on my row wanted to sit together so the flight attendant asked if I could take the empty seat beside her, so I joyfully did. Thou I was very shy to talk to her at first but she help my situation by asking me if we had met before.

We spent the entire flight discussing everything. And then, the flight landed. She asked for my number that she would call me and we went our separate ways. I was certain I would never hear from her again.

I thought about her often, but eventually she faded into the ‘missed connections’ category. A few months later, out of the blue, she sent me [a message that said] ‘Happy New Year.’ We hit it off like nothing ever changed.

We’ve been married for three years now and have two children...

Egwudah Michael, from Ilorin Kwara State of Nigeria.. 08035530434

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Joe Jonas does a Zayn Malik?

According to TMZ, Joe Jonas spotted a new bleach blond hair do on Wednesday night in LA and bears a striking resemblance to Zayn Malik's.

Why this seem weird is that Zayn is now dating Joe's ex, Gigi Hadid.  This look certainly aint  co-incidence.
Any way - who do you think wore it better?

Paternity Test? What Paternity Test

Louis and Danielle

1D fans are probably petrified right now! Lousi Tomlinson one of the quartet of  the present day One Direction ( exit Zayn Malik), was so convinced  he is the dad of little baby Freddie - the son he's had with ex-girlfriend Briana Jungwirth, he decided against a paternity test.

The 24 year old ladies' man briefly dated the briefly last year, and their son, Freddie , arrived last month.  However, pals revealed the One Direction heartthrob never took a test to check the boy was his.  Meanwhile, it's been claimed Brianna, 24, has been upset at the sight  of Louis celebrating new flame Danielle Campbell's 21st birthday in LA this week.

Iman Steps out - Dog Takes Lead from David

David Bowie's widow - Iman walks her dog, which - like her late husband - has one blue eye.  The model looked poised and stunning as she strolled through snowy streets near her home in Manhattan.

Sex Spritzer by ES: Men, moaning, and emotion in the bedroom - 7 points to consider

I feel as men we tend to focus on our partner and her pleasure in the bedroom.

So when the time comes for our own orgasm or release there can be a "let's get it over with" attitude with little focus on pleasure and enjoyment.

We say that it is important for the woman to communicate with her partner and let him know what she likes verbally and through her moans. While some women may find it hard to express themselves verbally, for many, moaning and emotional exclamations of pleasure come naturally. 

But what about men and moaning? I feel that some men don't moan at all because it is just not macho. I know I felt that way many years ago. If you look at romantic movies in the mainstream there are very few examples of the man moaning, but I am sure many of us can remember ones where the woman does like in the movie "When Harry Met Sally". I had a very understanding partner years ago and she encouraged me to moan, breathe, and express my emotion during sex. It really helped my sex life and I had much better orgasms. 

I know I feel very good and happy when my partner has an orgasm. Women have similar excitement an happiness when they know they are pleasing their partner. So telling your woman what she is doing feels good is like giving her a compliment. Your moaning also lets her know she is doing well, is a turn on for some women, and can lead to mutual orgasms. 

Every man is different but here are a few reasons why I did not moan. I thought my moaning sounds were weird and showed a sign of weakness. I wondered if my partner would be distracted or turned off by it. I did not think men were supposed to moan. 

Moaning is an expression of emotion. It is okay and helpful to express your emotion in the bedroom as a man. Here are a few tips to get into moaning:

1. Set aside a time where the woman just focuses on the man and bringing him to orgasm. 

2. On the way to orgasm, have the man focus on his breathing, talk about what feels good, and encourage him to moan. 

3. Take your time and perhaps bring him to the edge and stop a few times before bringing about release and orgasm. This will cause a buildup and help the man feel more comfortable about moaning and maybe even forget he is doing it.

4. Release:  At the point of orgasm let yourself go. I call it release because it is a release of tension, pleasure, but also emotion. If you feel like screaming out, do it. Let your body go and ride the wave. 

5. Not everyone gets to this point, but the release of emotion has to be allowed. As you are about to release let your thoughts flow forward to your lips. What comes out is usually very emotional. "You look so hot leaning over me like that!"  "Oh my God I love the sound of your voice!" "I love you so much!" Then when you release the emotion flows with it and in some cases it is very intense, maybe including tears.

6. Once you have done this a few times and feel comfortable, try it during intercourse and other sex play. 

7. Be yourself and do what is comfortable. You can moan soft, medium, loud or all the above, don't stop yourself, let it flow. If moaning is not comfortable, focus more on the breathing and letting go. As a minimum trying 1-6 above will certainly be fun.   

The bottom line is moaning is a form of communication. For great sex, I suggest men do it too.