People fall in love on a daily bases-or so it seems,and the next minute
they are out of it. Question is does love really exist,or is it mistaken
for infatuation or lust? According to Wikipedia;
'Infatuation is so short lived that most often one is over it before it
blossoms into love. Although sometimes it does develop into real love.
But infatuation fades when one's head is no more in the clouds and the
illusion of infatuation inevitably leads to disappointment,when learning
the truth about a lover fizzles out'.
Infatuation is so common among the youths and can be viewed as puppy
love or idol love,which often leads to having a crush on an individual
and sometimes the object of desire might be
stalked. A infatuated person
most often is so admiring of the object of interest that he/she tends
to see only the virtues of such a person,he/she is usually not
realistic,it is this protection and total believe in such virtues that
sets love apart from infatuation. Love on the other encompasses the
ability to trust and understand,have a willingness to make sacrifices
for one another,been able to compromise so that each persons opinion is
not swept under the carpet and accept and correct each others
flaws,while reaching or striving for greater heights as a couple. An
infatuated individual is in a constant state of all consuming
euphoria,stupidity, has loss of ability to make rational evaluation of
what is true,valuable and worthy.........To be continued
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