Tuesday 24 November 2015

3 isn't always a crowd . 6 Tips of Dos and Dont's from a Sex Expert

I posted an article culled from the Huffington Post some days ago - see HERE .  I read in the papers recently saying 3 isn't always a crowd.
Below are six threesome advice as seen in the Metro newspaper by Sex Expert - Tracey Cox:


1. Figure out if you're ready.  If you have a partner, bear in mind the sort  of person survives  this, has a high trust level.  When it goes right, it's with people who aren't madly in love, casually having fun, interested in exploring. Singles who sleep with couples or people they're not going to see again , fare really well in threesome

2. Never, ever do it with a friend....  Answer an ad- that's far more honest way to do it. You won't get jealous that way, or if you like - go to a swingers club - everyone knows what they are there for.

3. If you're not entirely sure of what you're doing, another option is to pair off and watch while they get up to something, then they can watch while two of you get up to something.

4. Be very specific about what's allowed and what's not.  Most of the time when it goes wrong, it's because people don't talk it through.  Noses are put out of joint because one person gets into it a bit too much, or women are astonished the boyfriend is kissing a guy.

5. If you see your partner looking anxious, even if you're about to have the best orgasm in the world, you need to stop and think: ' This is going to last about 30 seconds and the repercussions are going to last the whole of my life'.

6.  Load on the reassurances: any sexual compliments need to be paid to your partner not the other person, though you need to be polite!  You need to say to your partner: 'You look sexy'.


3 comments:

  1. ah haaaa - good tips here. Thx IvyTrotter

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  2. There are some good tips here. My own thoughts are there are many Couples getting into Swinging or Threesomes because it will "save" their relationship and make it more passionate. That is dangerous ground I feel. More passion does not come from adding another person or persons to the mix. It comes from the people in the relationship themselves.

    Most people I have met than can handle a Threesome are couples very stable and strong in their relationship. They see the sex just as physical and it does not effect their emotional relationship.

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  3. Many Thanks for your insightful comment ES.

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