Saturday, 23 January 2016

Dating sites and apps .............some we may not know?

Last month, we brought you an insight into selected 8 dating apps and sites.  If you missed it, HERE it is again.

2015 didn't go by without some new dating apps croping up on us.  Here are 3 unique ones and their offerings

Hinge


Released in  2013 and been in several countries globally, the app has matched more tahn a million people up,  however, probably at the time of this writing, waiting for the 1st Hinge wedding.  Hinge works by showing profiles of single people nearby, and only matches you with friends of friends or third -degree connections.

It was reported in the news sometime in May 2015, that almost 500 men left the dating app when the company behind the app revealed that it had introduced a new feature which informs users whether a prospective date is already in a relationship, by publishing details from their Facebook information.  This feature enables users to catch potential cheaters.  Good job Hinge !!!


The League


This app here is  de-la-creme of dating apps.  An elitist and highly selective dating app for successful singles is surely not meant for everyone.  It prides itself as the 'Tinder for Elites'.  The app was launched in San Francisco early 2015, and is gaining wide spread globally.

It's hard to get into the app - the only way is by applying to a long waiting list of over 100 000.  Potential joiners are screened and selected based on their education and professional history. Once you're part of the league, its members receive five new matches everyday at 5pm - the 'happy hour'.  The app is linked to LinkedIn the professional networking site

Fliqpic


A video dating app which allows real time and text chat.  Users swear it's a lot better as you can see the person you're matched with , chat and see if chemistry develops.  It helps to eliminate potential 'catfish' and you can get to know the matches pretty quickly








Monday, 18 January 2016

Lolade's Corner: Blast from the past; so far so good

 

........so how could he resist the lure of selling coke,it introduced him to new and unwanted sets of friends-of all characters one could think of, it brought in fast money-as a result the girls were ready and easily available to him,it showed him the way of the world and how rotten one could get through it,but thank God, he had his head screwed on the right way.

He was smart enough not to sniff the stuff, afterall he could see first hand how people got addicted to the stuff,got ruined and broken by the stuff.

Jake was wise enough not to find out it's primary source,all he wanted to do was buy and sell the stuff,so that he could help his family and have a little on the side for girls and friends. 

How he eventually got out of selling the white stuff and moving on with his life was nothing short of a miracle.

Thinking back once in a while he shudders to think the risk he put himself through and the way he might have ended up if he had not made a quick break for it as soon as he could get a much more decent means of livelihood...............to be continued


Friday, 15 January 2016

Lolade's Corner: Secrets


........April has been dating Jason for almost a year now,and she is terrified of the day he would realize that she had been telling him a lot of half truths. 
             
When she and Jason met she was already a self made woman,of cause she came from a comfortable home but she had always wanted to be very rich, so much so that she detested depending on anyone-afterall if she were that independent no man could boss,belittle her,be a chauvinist,or even physically abuse her!
        
So being the intelligent girl that she was, in order to make quick cash she got involved in internet hacking and boy did she get rich!       
She was wise enough to spread her money through various banks, some which she converted to stocks and bonds, with substantial shares in some blue chip companies, she also has a few houses in choice areas, if you are not a close confidant of hers, you would never guess her real worth and she is suave enough to be in discreet in the display of her wealth.   
                   
Jason is your average hard working middle class guy, he is a hard worker and does not believe you have to go through short cuts to achieve the wealth you want.                       
Almost six foot tall,with a physique that gives you an impression of workouts in the gym. Jason is not a chauvinist, could hold his own and is an good dresser, so why couldn't she have him for keeps?         
                 
April was not ready to let him go (if ever) and she knew, if he should find out she made her wealth thru an unclean means, he might make a run out of her life.

To be continued.................
  

Oh My Days..................... Lollll


Top Tips To Set You On Your Way To Dating Happiness

According to Dating expert Susan Quilliam, here are the top tips to set your way to dating happiness



1. ASK Three friends to tell you what they think a partner would (should) adore about you, then use that to build your confidence

2. TO offset getting in a search rut, for every 20 profiles you see, contact one - even if they don't look promising.

3. TAKE a dating break - no sites, no apps, no meet-ups - to rediscover who you are.

4. ARRANGE to see someone you're not quite convinced about again.  Sometimes first-date nerves (yours or a  potential partner's)undermines chemistry - a second date will reveal the truth

Photo credit:google

Wednesday, 13 January 2016

Nick Cannon Doesn't think Marriage is for Everyone

'I feel like marriage isn't for everyone,' says Nick Cannon, the American Got Talent host who was married to Mariah Carey, the superstar singer. 
Click Here for more

Tuesday, 12 January 2016

Sex Spritzer by ES: Woman & Orgasm

Every adult craves to experience orgasm with their partners - however, not all especially women get to experience it at all.  It's quite nice if a woman can orgasm during intercourse, below are a few tips I'll like to share:



1. Know your body. Before you can have an orgasm during intercourse, I suggest you learn your own body what turns you on, and perhaps have an orgasm outside of intercourse. This can be done by yourself or with a partner but it is very important to know what turns you on. 

2. Set the stage. With your partner get the bedroom set up so it is pleasing to the eye, smells nice, is the right temp, and put on some music you like. You want to be completely comfortable in the bedroom. The last thing you want is distractions from the room or the phone.

3. What is intercourse to you?  Think of all the wonderful things you enjoy from intercourse on an emotional level. His breath against your ear, his heart beating next to yours, the warmth of your bodies, holding him during orgasm and filling you up, etc. It can be a deep bonding experience even without your orgasm. Open yourself up to this energy.

4. Share yourself. The pleasure of release or orgasm is a wonderful thing. Nobody gets to see you release except your partner. You are sharing that pleasure with him by reaching orgasm with him inside you. Having him hold you during release and do things to help you release may cause you to feel vulnerable at first but it is really wonderful. It is like a gift.

5. The mind has to be turned on. For all of us men and women the mind is the biggest sex organ. If you get the mind turned on, the rest will easily follow. You can play a scenario, read an erotic book together, or watch a movie.

6. Try oral sex before. Have him go down on you first. He can get you close or give you an orgasm so you are ready to have another during intercourse. 

7. In general most women need clit stimulation.  If you look at a woman's anatomy the clit sits at the top of the vagina mainly outside under the hood. So it needs to rub against something for the woman to release. If the man is on top, he can move up so his pubic bone is rubbing on her clit while he is inside. Or if she is on top in the Cowgirl position she can grind her clit on him. If this is what will help the woman to release then do it.  Know it is okay for one person the woman or the man to manually play with the clit during intercourse. 

8. Talk, encourage, move. Remember to let your partner know when he is getting it right. If it feels good say so, but be yourself. Move your hips, your body, with your partner. Feel free to touch parts of his body that turn you on. You are taking this journey of pleasure together. Your movements will increase your own pleasure but also tell him you are enjoying yourself and want pleasure and release as much as he does. This is very important to most men.

9. Aftercare. Once you have had intercourse and are laying in each others arms, this is a good time for aftercare and pillow talk. You can tell him how wonderful something he did was so he will know to do it again. I had a girlfriend tell me 20 years ago, "Where did you learn that circular thrusting technique? That is awesome!" Men don't usually forget compliments and comments like that.

10. It is okay if it does not happen. It may take a while to orgasm during intercourse while for some women it may not happen at all. If it does not happen don't worry about it or make it that big of a deal.Trying too hard to make it happen may just leave you sad. Like I mentioned above, there is some great bonding during intercourse even without you both enjoying orgasm. Having and sharing pleasure with your partner is what is most important.

Photo credit: gizmodo


Hilarious Post.........


Saturday, 9 January 2016

Lolade's Corner: BLAST FROM THE PAST

The past should remain just there-in the past,but it does have a way of catching up with us.  Almost everyone has a past,they really wished they could wish away.

Traveling down memory lane is not a favorite pastime of a lot of people,especially if it conjures  some bad or embarrassing incidents.

Growing up was not fun for Jake,his family could barely survive,eating food was a luxury,clothing could only be obtain from samaritans who pass on their used clothes to the church for anyone that might be interested.

Thank God at least they could barely scrape enough to pay for shelter. Of course Jake loved his parents and his siblings were to die for,but how much could a young guy take?
Growing into adolescence meant a change in friends, a wider outlook on life, trying to acquire the swag look, meeting new and interesting girls, trying to better himself and his siblings too and of cause the ever present peer pressure that seems to proceed and en capsule adolescence.......to be continued

Thursday, 7 January 2016

UBER COUPLES - The New Speed Dating?

Taxi app Uber recently launched a new 'pool' service, where you can share your cab journey with someone travelling in the same direction.  The side effect has been - in the US at least- that people are chatting each other up on late-night rides.


It's like speed-dating meets getting home - ten minutes with a stranger to chat to before they are on their way.

I think this is going to be a new way of dating as Uber expands this service to other countries where Uber currently operates in.