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Wednesday, 13 January 2016
Tuesday, 12 January 2016
Sex Spritzer by ES: Woman & Orgasm
Every adult craves to experience orgasm with their partners - however, not all especially women get to experience it at all. It's quite nice if a woman can orgasm during intercourse, below are a few tips I'll like to share:
1. Know your body. Before you can have an orgasm during intercourse, I suggest you learn your own body what turns you on, and perhaps have an orgasm outside of intercourse. This can be done by yourself or with a partner but it is very important to know what turns you on.
2. Set the stage. With your partner get the bedroom set up so it is pleasing to the eye, smells nice, is the right temp, and put on some music you like. You want to be completely comfortable in the bedroom. The last thing you want is distractions from the room or the phone.
3. What is intercourse to you? Think of all the wonderful things you enjoy from intercourse on an emotional level. His breath against your ear, his heart beating next to yours, the warmth of your bodies, holding him during orgasm and filling you up, etc. It can be a deep bonding experience even without your orgasm. Open yourself up to this energy.
4. Share yourself. The pleasure of release or orgasm is a wonderful thing. Nobody gets to see you release except your partner. You are sharing that pleasure with him by reaching orgasm with him inside you. Having him hold you during release and do things to help you release may cause you to feel vulnerable at first but it is really wonderful. It is like a gift.
5. The mind has to be turned on. For all of us men and women the mind is the biggest sex organ. If you get the mind turned on, the rest will easily follow. You can play a scenario, read an erotic book together, or watch a movie.
6. Try oral sex before. Have him go down on you first. He can get you close or give you an orgasm so you are ready to have another during intercourse.
7. In general most women need clit stimulation. If you look at a woman's anatomy the clit sits at the top of the vagina mainly outside under the hood. So it needs to rub against something for the woman to release. If the man is on top, he can move up so his pubic bone is rubbing on her clit while he is inside. Or if she is on top in the Cowgirl position she can grind her clit on him. If this is what will help the woman to release then do it. Know it is okay for one person the woman or the man to manually play with the clit during intercourse.
8. Talk, encourage, move. Remember to let your partner know when he is getting it right. If it feels good say so, but be yourself. Move your hips, your body, with your partner. Feel free to touch parts of his body that turn you on. You are taking this journey of pleasure together. Your movements will increase your own pleasure but also tell him you are enjoying yourself and want pleasure and release as much as he does. This is very important to most men.
9. Aftercare. Once you have had intercourse and are laying in each others arms, this is a good time for aftercare and pillow talk. You can tell him how wonderful something he did was so he will know to do it again. I had a girlfriend tell me 20 years ago, "Where did you learn that circular thrusting technique? That is awesome!" Men don't usually forget compliments and comments like that.
10. It is okay if it does not happen. It may take a while to orgasm during intercourse while for some women it may not happen at all. If it does not happen don't worry about it or make it that big of a deal.Trying too hard to make it happen may just leave you sad. Like I mentioned above, there is some great bonding during intercourse even without you both enjoying orgasm. Having and sharing pleasure with your partner is what is most important.
Photo credit: gizmodo
Saturday, 9 January 2016
Lolade's Corner: BLAST FROM THE PAST
The past should remain just there-in the past,but it does have a way of catching up with us.
Almost everyone has a past,they really wished they could wish away.
Traveling down memory lane is not a favorite pastime of a lot of people,especially if it conjures some bad or embarrassing incidents.
Growing up was not fun for Jake,his family could barely survive,eating food was a luxury,clothing could only be obtain from samaritans who pass on their used clothes to the church for anyone that might be interested.
Thank God at least they could barely scrape enough to pay for shelter. Of course Jake loved his parents and his siblings were to die for,but how much could a young guy take?
Growing into adolescence meant a change in friends, a wider outlook on life, trying to acquire the swag look, meeting new and interesting girls, trying to better himself and his siblings too and of cause the ever present peer pressure that seems to proceed and en capsule adolescence.......to be continued
Traveling down memory lane is not a favorite pastime of a lot of people,especially if it conjures some bad or embarrassing incidents.
Growing up was not fun for Jake,his family could barely survive,eating food was a luxury,clothing could only be obtain from samaritans who pass on their used clothes to the church for anyone that might be interested.
Thank God at least they could barely scrape enough to pay for shelter. Of course Jake loved his parents and his siblings were to die for,but how much could a young guy take?
Growing into adolescence meant a change in friends, a wider outlook on life, trying to acquire the swag look, meeting new and interesting girls, trying to better himself and his siblings too and of cause the ever present peer pressure that seems to proceed and en capsule adolescence.......to be continued
Thursday, 7 January 2016
UBER COUPLES - The New Speed Dating?
Taxi app Uber recently launched a new 'pool' service, where you can share your cab journey with someone travelling in the same direction. The side effect has been - in the US at least- that people are chatting each other up on late-night rides.
It's like speed-dating meets getting home - ten minutes with a stranger to chat to before they are on their way.
I think this is going to be a new way of dating as Uber expands this service to other countries where Uber currently operates in.
It's like speed-dating meets getting home - ten minutes with a stranger to chat to before they are on their way.
I think this is going to be a new way of dating as Uber expands this service to other countries where Uber currently operates in.
A Love Story
School friends who lost touch during world War II are set to marry 77 years later.
Rose James, 91, wrote to Ray Seal, 92, last april while he was living in America.
Romance blossomed and the pair are set to wed on May 7 in Market Harborough. Leicestershire. Ray said: 'Rose was a very pretty young girl and not much has changed.'
How sweet is that!!!
Rose James, 91, wrote to Ray Seal, 92, last april while he was living in America.
Romance blossomed and the pair are set to wed on May 7 in Market Harborough. Leicestershire. Ray said: 'Rose was a very pretty young girl and not much has changed.'
How sweet is that!!!
Crazy Drunk Girl 'Mocked By Student Sex Attacker'
According to the Metro Newspaper UK, Louis Richardson is accused of having sex with the woman at his home when she was 'crazy drunk' and unable to consent in March 2014.
The next morning he is said to have told her she was 'rubbish in bed because she was unresponsive', Durham crown court heard
the 21-year-old told police it was 'likely' they had sex after he saw her in Klute nightclub and took her back to his home.
He is also accused of lifting up her top at a friend's house saying: 'Oh get your t**s out...everyone else has seen them.'
Richardson is also charged with attacking another student at a house party in October 2014. She fell ill and went to sleep in a bedroom but when she woke up to find a man with one hand on her breast and the other over her pants.
When she pushed him off, Paul Cleasby, prosecuting, said Richard replied; if you wanted me to stop you could have asked.'
The defendant, of St Helier, Jersey, denies one charge of rape and three sexual assault. The trial continue.
Married Men Just Won't Stop......Sigh!!
I enjoyed watching this vlog by a Nigerian lady on how a married Indian guy working in Nigeria tried hitting on her. Watch her vlog and hear his wife's reaction: Enjoy!!
Wednesday, 6 January 2016
Lasting Longer in Bed: 7 Tips For Women by Ivy BV
The article on Lasting Longer in Bed - 8 quick tips for men has been popularly read since we posted in November 2015. If you missed it, HERE it is again for a quick read through.
An important IvyTrotterChick Blog Visitior (Ivy BV) decided to give some tips on women. We thought it's worth sharing as a post on it's own.
Here are some thoughts and tips for women in helping their man last longer in bed.
1. If your partner is having trouble lasting longer in bed, the best thing you can do is support him in a loving way. He will probably already feel bad, so do your best to make him feel better and that it does happen sometimes. Even better if he is able to talk to you about it and let you help out in several ways I list below. Most of all ladies do not blame yourself, you can help but it is not your fault.
2. What is your goal in intercourse? If it is mutual orgasm for example than you can help out by making sure he knows what pleases you, when you are getting close, etc. This is where you can really help, but you need to know your own body. If not, then explore with your partner, before intercourse.
3. Get to know your man. While I see on TV and the internet how important it is for a man to know a woman's anatomy, I feel the same is true for women. Learn to give your man oral or manual stimulation and learn what turns him on. Watch him when he is getting close, and when he orgasms, all of those signs will be present during intercourse. But not just his penis, look at areas on his whole body and what turns him on.
Example: Firm pressure and up and down movement of a woman's hand on my penis will cause me to eventually orgasm. Not all guys are the same, but this is probably true for most men. So when they enter the woman for the first time she is naturally tight (the firm pressure) and begin thrusting (the same as the up and down movement) they are set up to orgasm fairly quickly.
4. Once you learn what turns your man on, then you can use that knowledge to help him last longer. If he really enjoys your breasts, keep them in your lingerie until you are ready for him to orgasm. Regarding 3 above, have him enter you only after you are very wet, and you will not be as tight. Move your hips and do some side to side thrusting while he is deep inside. In this way there is less in/out movement so he will last longer.
5. Positions. Explore different positions and you may find ones that he lasts longer than others. For me the doggie position is one I don't last too long at, so I avoid it until near the end of our play. The cowgirl position is great for the woman because she can be on top, control the thrusting, like side to side movement or grinding that I mentioned above. Also she can grab her man's balls and lightly pull them away from his body to help him last longer.
6. Maybe consider starting off with oral to orgasm. His 2nd orgasm will take much longer and cause him to last longer. Or have him give you an oral orgasm and then when he enters you, he is mind is at ease that the goal then is not mutual orgasm just his orgasm and you can use techniques above to help him last longer.
7. Most of all communication is important. If you can talk about things it is much easier. There are so many things that he can do like cock rings and condoms that help but would be nice to have your approval and smile. It is all about pleasing someone you truly care for in the bedroom. It leads to some deep bonding I feel.
ES
Photo Credit: Glamour online/google
An important IvyTrotterChick Blog Visitior (Ivy BV) decided to give some tips on women. We thought it's worth sharing as a post on it's own.
Here are some thoughts and tips for women in helping their man last longer in bed.
1. If your partner is having trouble lasting longer in bed, the best thing you can do is support him in a loving way. He will probably already feel bad, so do your best to make him feel better and that it does happen sometimes. Even better if he is able to talk to you about it and let you help out in several ways I list below. Most of all ladies do not blame yourself, you can help but it is not your fault.
2. What is your goal in intercourse? If it is mutual orgasm for example than you can help out by making sure he knows what pleases you, when you are getting close, etc. This is where you can really help, but you need to know your own body. If not, then explore with your partner, before intercourse.
3. Get to know your man. While I see on TV and the internet how important it is for a man to know a woman's anatomy, I feel the same is true for women. Learn to give your man oral or manual stimulation and learn what turns him on. Watch him when he is getting close, and when he orgasms, all of those signs will be present during intercourse. But not just his penis, look at areas on his whole body and what turns him on.
Example: Firm pressure and up and down movement of a woman's hand on my penis will cause me to eventually orgasm. Not all guys are the same, but this is probably true for most men. So when they enter the woman for the first time she is naturally tight (the firm pressure) and begin thrusting (the same as the up and down movement) they are set up to orgasm fairly quickly.
4. Once you learn what turns your man on, then you can use that knowledge to help him last longer. If he really enjoys your breasts, keep them in your lingerie until you are ready for him to orgasm. Regarding 3 above, have him enter you only after you are very wet, and you will not be as tight. Move your hips and do some side to side thrusting while he is deep inside. In this way there is less in/out movement so he will last longer.
5. Positions. Explore different positions and you may find ones that he lasts longer than others. For me the doggie position is one I don't last too long at, so I avoid it until near the end of our play. The cowgirl position is great for the woman because she can be on top, control the thrusting, like side to side movement or grinding that I mentioned above. Also she can grab her man's balls and lightly pull them away from his body to help him last longer.
6. Maybe consider starting off with oral to orgasm. His 2nd orgasm will take much longer and cause him to last longer. Or have him give you an oral orgasm and then when he enters you, he is mind is at ease that the goal then is not mutual orgasm just his orgasm and you can use techniques above to help him last longer.
7. Most of all communication is important. If you can talk about things it is much easier. There are so many things that he can do like cock rings and condoms that help but would be nice to have your approval and smile. It is all about pleasing someone you truly care for in the bedroom. It leads to some deep bonding I feel.
ES
Photo Credit: Glamour online/google
Zayn Malik and Gigi Moving Too Fast??
Are Zayn Malik and Gigi Hadid - both popularly referred to as Zigi moving in together? According to US Media Tabloids, the couple could both be taken to the next level. The new couple sparked speculations they could be moving in together after they were spotted hunting for apartments in New York on Monday afternoon.
Malik and Hadid stirred rumors they are ready to live under the same roof even after only a few months of dating. According to reports, the pair were photographed visiting apartments that were available for rent along SoHo area.
Before the rumour mill gets into overdrive, a source told E!News that Malik and Hadid are not moving in together. The source claimed they were just simply looking around for apartments and nothing more.
The new couple have been open about their relationship since they were spotted holding hands while leaving a posh club in Los Angeles last year in December. They continue to confirm their romance through their respective instagram accounts.
Zigi first grabbed the dating headlines when they were spotted hanging out several times in November at The Nice Guy in West Hollywood. Malik was previously engaged to Little Mix singer - Perrie Edwards, and Hadid was in a relationship with Joe Jonas.
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