IVYTROTTER: Sexual Outsourcing - Rescuing Women in London

London - One of the busiest cities on the planet.  Financial capital of Europe - many will argue. City workers have deadlines to catch, race against time and rage against biological clock for the women.

Dating apps and websites might be of good help, but do they solve intimacy situations as such?

Well- i was reading a November edition of cosmopolitan magazine when i came across this amazing yet intriguing professional.

Colin Richards is a qualified erotic massuer, a professional and acclaimed sex and relationship mentor and much more.

His most popular treatment is the 90 minutes Kama Sutra massage which he charges 175GBP for.  If you visit Colin's website, he's got great reviews from his clients.  Before booking an appointment, clients - women of course - chat with him about available options including and not limited to breast stimulation, being brought into orgasm by his fingers or oral sex.

Colin doesn't accept just everyone that's got money to pay, you will go through a proper chat and ascertain areas of concern.  Some women want to recconnect with their sexuality, some of them want to be touched- without being on a date or relationship, some women see it as a form of reconnecting with their bodies.

There are several people out there offering the same service as Colin, but Colin's reviews is the main USP for him.  He's the leading guy in this front!!

Good luck ladies!!!!



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Flash Mob Proposal Fails - Girlfriend rejects ring....says it's too small

Chinese woman rejects her boyfriend's proposal ring...because it was 'too small'.  He got down on one knee, opened the box  and her eyes went wide as she put her hand over her mouth and then turned around and walked away without saying a word! ' said a local witness.

The woman later told her friends on why she rejected the proposal. ' But he agreed to buy me diamon ring as large as a 1 carat,' she said.  'Why was this one so small? Is he so careless or has he ever cared about me?'
The friend reassured her the boyfriend might have been planning to buy a bigger ring.

The internet has been on frenzy with this news and a lot of people are calling her out saying she doesn't deserve it and the guy should consider himself lucky.

Do you think she overreacted?

TGIF - Laughs

Lolade's Corner: Liar Liar!!

.......To an extent, we tell little white lies here and there, don't we?  I don't know of a single person who can confidently beat his/her chest and say there are saints ....oh well except the saints.

We must have all lied in our childhood, either to our parents while trying to avoid being punished for a wrong act; to our friends - pretending to be what we're not; to our employers/employees while trying to be approachable; event to our own siblings; or just about anyone just for the fun of it - trying to get away with what we shouldn't.

Little white lies are quite harmless in nature, the lies often smooth over what might otherwise escalate into an awkward or unwanted situation, but when lies become persistent, glamorized and blown out of proportion, it does become ridiculous and can be quite harmful.  You'll be quite surprised at the rate at which people lie and the extent they'll go to cover it up such lies.

Couples lie to each other, siblings do, children to parent do, office lies are the juiciest and could be very dangerous too.  Lies then take on a soul - when you lie, you need to tell another one to cover up the initial lie and so the layer of coverings continues till it reaches a magnitude that it bursts right in your face!

There's nothing wrong with dreaming- having dreams makes you achieve and accomplish your set goals but a lie is a lie - it's not a dream ..............to be continued

Lolade's Corner: Who's that girl? Concluding Part

Continued from HERE   

.......and I was like, who's she?
Alex was newly employed at this printout joint or lounge as you may call it.  She was inbetweeen schools and decided it would be best to work and earn a few dollars - rather than laze around waiting for college, so there she was, doing her bit when i saw her.  Alex might not be the most beautiful girl ever, but she had striking features and great physique plus she's got this carriage that's unique to her.  She has this interesting aura around her such that you get drawn to her instantly - not in a sleazy way but you'ld want to talk to her, get to know her and Thank God she wasn't a snub like a lot of girls I know.  Alex - was just cool! she could hold her own in any conversation without trying to dominate it neither was she pea-brained.

Alex - she knew how to have a good laugh, she wasn't clingy, she was just right! Did i fall in love with her after i observed all these after visiting the printout lounge severally? I didn't think Alex was real....of course there are amazing ladies out there, but Alex was just peculiar and being a bad boy, i tend to attract girls like me.

Alex and I are good friends now, she's taken (by a lucky guy) , but sincerely wish the guy could be me. Old habits die hard - so hopefully i meet my own 'Alex' at some point.

Dating sites and app.....it's a jungle out there. Here are some selected 8

According to Metro newspaper columnist, Paul Brooks, welcome to the world of being baffled by gadgetry.  This is dating the 2010s style!!!

The world of old-school dating was chastening, Internet dating, however, looks exciting, with websites and apps aplenty.  With new dating apps getting released faster than we can download them, it's mental torture knowing where to start.

1.  Bumble offers more than just an opportunity for ogling and places the power in the woman's hands, giving them 24 hours to reach out once a connection has been made.

2.  Blume - with it's unique selfie verification tool - an attempt to prevent fake profiles set up to catfish unsuspecting victims - it's certainly intriguing.

3.  Ah - the main entry level of them all - the first site ever, Plenty Of Fish (uk.pof.com), which has a dedicated app

4.  Ashley Madison - the holy grail for married people looking to have affairs.  Ashley Madisson's tag line is 'Life is short.  Have an affair!'

5. Tinder - The most popular of them all.  described as the  sex satnav.  The phone app uses your GPS location settings and takes information from your facebook profile to partner you with folk in your area.  You get a gallery of possible dates and swipe right to register them.  If they swipe right as well, it's game on.

6. Grinder - a dating site and app for gay men.  The front page offers a cornucopia of muscled blokes in various states of undress.  It's like a dirty version of a men-only Hollyoaks calendar

7.  EHarmony - Eharmony has website and app and it feels grown up.  On joining, you answer questions so the site can match  you with somebody suitable.

8. GothicMatch.com - this is a place for  black-clad, mascara-wearing glum-buckets.  Misery-loving goths searching for happiness and romance is both an incongruous idea and an utterly heartwarming one.

The web has made it possible to defy geographical restrictions and people of like-minds can meet. Be careful not to give your credit-card details on a chat with potential dates.

18 Qualities Every Alpha Woman Should Look For In A Boyfriend

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According to Elite Daily, there are 18 Qualities that should stand out and be identified when ladies are seeking boyfriends

1.  He's someone who can tease you and also be teased

2.  He challenges you

3.  He doesn't get jealous

4.  He isn't waiting on you, he has his own plans

5.  He doesn't air your dirty laundry

Lolade's Corner: Who's that girl? Part 1

Love has a funny way of striking different people in various ways.  For some, it's love at first sight, for others, it's a build up of emotions sometimes preceded by friendship.

These days, love can be found in so many forms and ways - with the availability of so many social media options at one's disposal, sometimes the relationship has already run it's course and it's over even before the partners involved have even met!

It's quite refreshing when a relationship is not established over the internet via facebook, twitter, WeChat, Skype and Dating sites and mobile apps.

Marco - a friend of mine is always smitten by love.  He says 'I'm a Casanova, I've always been one and thought I would always be one till the very end'. I knew I would have children -obviously  with any of my conquest who might claim to be pregnant for me, but WIFE! no way!! I couldn't imagine being tied down to ONE Woman for the rest of my life or so I thought.  I had played the field, been there and done that, so nothing new - Nothing! All this was till I met Alex.................

There's this place you could make quick printouts from your iPhones, laptops, flash drive, its a place we hang out, it's about two bus stops away from my house, I drop in often to discuss with my 'peeps' and also see if ladies will be there for quick chats too.  It's been a while i had gone, with work getting a bit hectic.  I was heading home one day when i decided to spend some free time at this printout joint and I saw her!

To be continued


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Australia Tobacco Tycoon, The Candyman - Travers Beynon's extravagant party

Travers Beynon, Australia's tobacco tycoon threw an extravagant party of a lifetime, with a lot on display such as elephants, beast masks, bare-breasted guests and wearing clothes was absolutely optional.

Daily Mail Australia were amongst the 500 guest who attended the bash yesterday evening, 11th December, 2015.  See more photos below:

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I just had Sex!!!