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The different covers of Adele's 'HELLO'

Since Adele captured the world's hearts again after some years, a lot artists have been covering here sone which i posted HERE .  Below are my own Top 3 covers.  Simply amazing!!!

Joe's Cover

Conor's Cover

Jade Nova's Cover

Lolade's corner: Singles' this one is for you!

In certain parts of the world, the stigmatization attached to singles, be it single parenthood, divorced, widowed or never-been-married can be a tad frightening.

Who are those that actually fall into the category of single-doom? The legal age in most countries to get married is 18 years of age - that is, the age in which an individual can be termed as full-grown adult and should be able to take responsibilities for himself/herself - alas this is actually really works only the western world - not so much in the rest of the universe.

In some societies, once a female child starts to experience her monthly period, she has invariably attained adulthood and age of consent.....if you ask me, this is totally absurd.
In some societies, 20 to 25 years of age is an agreeable age of adulthood for a female.  Regardless of whether the girl has just started her period or she is around 25 years of age, the society expects her to start courting /dating and bring home a suitor.

Notice that i have only mentioned the female child so far. A man might not be considered 'single' by the society until he reaches the age of 40!
Singlehood can be classified into those who have reached the acceptable marriageable age according to the society and environment in which they live, another group are those who have long passed the acceptable age yet not married.  As i mentioned earlier, there are also the single mothers, divorced and widowed.

Being single should be enjoyed by whoever is in such a stage , after-all, you have freedom/liberty to do various things such as: self improvement, learning new language,travel the world - where you'll actually meet so many new people and grow as an individual.

Interestingly, not everyone can survive being single - especially men.  Men don't find it fun being single because they need the opposite sex to lighten up their lives!

The stigmatization labelled on singles for being'single' is a bit overrated and hypocritical. I can tell you for a fact, that being married is not a bed of roses and requires work from both parties. If your spouse doesn't know how the 'roses' smell, then trouble looms.  Quite a lot of my married friends confined in me that they really wished they were single - this shows that quite a number of marriages have several thorns in their 'roses'!

Marriage comes with it's own status, afterall, the MRS title is something a few girls are willing to break up other people's marriages for, but then, if you're not with your God-given spouse, you'll wish you had never entered into it.
These days, the men are so unwilling to add their names to someone else's own, for them it's much more cheaper to have a lot of baby mamas', pay for child support and skip live's responsibilities.

Take a bold step and enjoy your single live, and you'ld find love sometimes at the most unusual times and unusual place.

Crazy World

A blog visitor sent this youtube link to me to share .  Ideally, i wouldn't post such, but i realised, the world is filled with so many people brain-washed over nothing.

This is a youtube video of a Kenyan Pastor and a radio presenter.

and here is an individual's analysis of how stupid people have become to actually believe in the crazy pastor

Lolade's Corner: Office Romance

Finding Love in the office isn't something one sets out to find, but when / if it happens, there's no escaping of one feels.

Office romance is mostly perceived as a semi-taboo, its almost like eating a forbidden fruit.  You want to give it a go, but unsure of how colleagues and bosses will react to it.   You wonder if your colleagues will think you're taking the 'meeky' and as we know , office gossip is always juicy.

If you're married and looking to have an affair- with a colleague, your 'ass is grass' when the wrath of the gossip-mongers descends on you.  If you're single and the person of interest is as well.....oh by all means ..who cares what the gossip-mongers think ....... oophhh?

Let's face it, affairs can't be kept a secret for too long, its best you come out clean and the gossip-mongers will be laid to rest.  If it leads to the alter or other forms of happy ever after, great! if it doesn't, you move on! my 2 cents

Lolade's Corner: Babe or Bitch?

Babe or Bitch? This is a recurring issue amongst men, when they are either dating or decide to settle down.

'Bitch' - the Baaaaddd girl, the one that knows how to have good fun whenever, however.  By the way- it all depends on what you define/classify as 'bitch'.  This 'bitch' is the one that's fun to be with, after-all, life is meant to be lived to the fullest.  More often than not, she's the go-getter, otherwise- how else would she have been able to achieve her drive to live live to a hilt....oh yes...she doesn't suffer fools at all.

'Babe' - Your typical 'take home to mama' kind of girl.  she's the sweet, proper one.  the one whose diction is near perfection and her life priorities are a given.  Great dress sense, proper etiquette on all fronts and has the perfect job.  This one right here is the one you long to take home to mama! Yes?

Lets's face it - the 'Bitch'(a.k.a bad girl) is immesely fun to be with - life is a roller coaster with her, while 'Babe' (the good angel), though not super fun to be with , seem to tick all the boxes you want in a woman - except the slightly boring times.

So here's the question, which of these 2 will rock your boat?


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