T-Squared 2016

On air personality (OAP) Tolu Oniru popularly known as Toolz married her fiance Capt Tunde Demuren today, below are some shots from the wedding...

Ciaras' Boo and his sweet words

See the adorable message Ciaras' boo wrote to her....

Memphis Depay ( Man U player) now dating Steve Harvey's step daughter

Deepay a Manchester United winger recently revealed he is in love with famous on air personality's (Steve Harvey) step daughter Lori Harvey. Deepay recently made this known on his IG page where he posted a romantic picture of them both kissing in Paris.  

The Blast From The Past - It's All Good

 

Oscar was not so lucky,selling coke and heroine gave him lots of money,girls,power and a sense of belonging(being an orphan), and a high he found difficult to get down from,of course he tried out his products once in a while and an addition was just waiting to happen. Well he did get addicted and would have just ended up being a number in the statistics of people who ended up wasted by drugs,but somehow he got saved.                        

Amy was an occasional user,she likes to think of herself as a social user of drugs,she has a grip on how and when she wants to get high-which thankfully is not often and so she has much more control of her life. When she met Oscar,she was out of a relationship and was intrigued by him,when u strip his shady deals,drug selling and usage he was quite a fun and nice enough guy,not violent and almost a gentleman considering his trade. She it was that saved him from himself,and only God knows what and how he would have ended if she where not there for him.

New Dating Apps to Test ????

Get in here - new dating apps on fleek :)

Lowdown - This new dating app delivers you one match per day chosen by special 'matchmakers'. These are people who have been trained to try and  match you based on your profile.    It also matches according toy your heartbeat.

The Unique Selling Point - You need a smartwatch or FitBit so that when you sync your device with the app, it will show whether your heartbeat raises when you look at a particular profile

Lowdown - Famous for being part of sex life, Ann Summers is now aiming to part of your dating life with the launch of Rabbit.

The Unique Selling Point - Rabbit uses what the brand is calling 'fuzzy logic', so your location is not used or shared.  When a woman gets a match request, before she accepts, there is an option to send a "Tell Me More' question to the guy.  The ethis of the app is much like that of the brand - about empowering women to be in control of their love lives.

Dating sites and apps .............some we may not know?

Last month, we brought you an insight into selected 8 dating apps and sites.  If you missed it, HERE it is again.

2015 didn't go by without some new dating apps croping up on us.  Here are 3 unique ones and their offerings

Hinge

Released in  2013 and been in several countries globally, the app has matched more tahn a million people up,  however, probably at the time of this writing, waiting for the 1st Hinge wedding.  Hinge works by showing profiles of single people nearby, and only matches you with friends of friends or third -degree connections.

It was reported in the news sometime in May 2015, that almost 500 men left the dating app when the company behind the app revealed that it had introduced a new feature which informs users whether a prospective date is already in a relationship, by publishing details from their Facebook information.  This feature enables users to catch potential cheaters.  Good job Hinge !!!


The League

This app here is  de-la-creme of dating apps.  An elitist and highly selective dating app for successful singles is surely not meant for everyone.  It prides itself as the 'Tinder for Elites'.  The app was launched in San Francisco early 2015, and is gaining wide spread globally.

It's hard to get into the app - the only way is by applying to a long waiting list of over 100 000.  Potential joiners are screened and selected based on their education and professional history. Once you're part of the league, its members receive five new matches everyday at 5pm - the 'happy hour'.  The app is linked to LinkedIn the professional networking site

Fliqpic

A video dating app which allows real time and text chat.  Users swear it's a lot better as you can see the person you're matched with , chat and see if chemistry develops.  It helps to eliminate potential 'catfish' and you can get to know the matches pretty quickly

Lolade's Corner: Blast from the past; so far so good

 

........so how could he resist the lure of selling coke,it introduced him to new and unwanted sets of friends-of all characters one could think of, it brought in fast money-as a result the girls were ready and easily available to him,it showed him the way of the world and how rotten one could get through it,but thank God, he had his head screwed on the right way.

He was smart enough not to sniff the stuff, afterall he could see first hand how people got addicted to the stuff,got ruined and broken by the stuff.

Jake was wise enough not to find out it's primary source,all he wanted to do was buy and sell the stuff,so that he could help his family and have a little on the side for girls and friends. 

How he eventually got out of selling the white stuff and moving on with his life was nothing short of a miracle.

Thinking back once in a while he shudders to think the risk he put himself through and the way he might have ended up if he had not made a quick break for it as soon as he could get a much more decent means of livelihood...............to be continued

Lolade's Corner: Secrets

........April has been dating Jason for almost a year now,and she is terrified of the day he would realize that she had been telling him a lot of half truths. 
             

When she and Jason met she was already a self made woman,of cause she came from a comfortable home but she had always wanted to be very rich, so much so that she detested depending on anyone-afterall if she were that independent no man could boss,belittle her,be a chauvinist,or even physically abuse her!
        

So being the intelligent girl that she was, in order to make quick cash she got involved in internet hacking and boy did she get rich!       

She was wise enough to spread her money through various banks, some which she converted to stocks and bonds, with substantial shares in some blue chip companies, she also has a few houses in choice areas, if you are not a close confidant of hers, you would never guess her real worth and she is suave enough to be in discreet in the display of her wealth.   
                   

Jason is your average hard working middle class guy, he is a hard worker and does not believe you have to go through short cuts to achieve the wealth you want.                       

Almost six foot tall,with a physique that gives you an impression of workouts in the gym. Jason is not a chauvinist, could hold his own and is an good dresser, so why couldn't she have him for keeps?         
                 

April was not ready to let him go (if ever) and she knew, if he should find out she made her wealth thru an unclean means, he might make a run out of her life.

To be continued.................

  

Oh My Days..................... Lollll

Top Tips To Set You On Your Way To Dating Happiness

According to Dating expert Susan Quilliam, here are the top tips to set your way to dating happiness

1. ASK Three friends to tell you what they think a partner would (should) adore about you, then use that to build your confidence

2. TO offset getting in a search rut, for every 20 profiles you see, contact one - even if they don't look promising.

3. TAKE a dating break - no sites, no apps, no meet-ups - to rediscover who you are.

4. ARRANGE to see someone you're not quite convinced about again.  Sometimes first-date nerves (yours or a  potential partner's)undermines chemistry - a second date will reveal the truth

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Nick Cannon Doesn't think Marriage is for Everyone

'I feel like marriage isn't for everyone,' says Nick Cannon, the American Got Talent host who was married to Mariah Carey, the superstar singer. 

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Sex Spritzer by ES: Woman & Orgasm

Every adult craves to experience orgasm with their partners - however, not all especially women get to experience it at all.  It's quite nice if a woman can orgasm during intercourse, below are a few tips I'll like to share:

1. Know your body. Before you can have an orgasm during intercourse, I suggest you learn your own body what turns you on, and perhaps have an orgasm outside of intercourse. This can be done by yourself or with a partner but it is very important to know what turns you on. 

2. Set the stage. With your partner get the bedroom set up so it is pleasing to the eye, smells nice, is the right temp, and put on some music you like. You want to be completely comfortable in the bedroom. The last thing you want is distractions from the room or the phone.

3. What is intercourse to you?  Think of all the wonderful things you enjoy from intercourse on an emotional level. His breath against your ear, his heart beating next to yours, the warmth of your bodies, holding him during orgasm and filling you up, etc. It can be a deep bonding experience even without your orgasm. Open yourself up to this energy.

4. Share yourself. The pleasure of release or orgasm is a wonderful thing. Nobody gets to see you release except your partner. You are sharing that pleasure with him by reaching orgasm with him inside you. Having him hold you during release and do things to help you release may cause you to feel vulnerable at first but it is really wonderful. It is like a gift.

5. The mind has to be turned on. For all of us men and women the mind is the biggest sex organ. If you get the mind turned on, the rest will easily follow. You can play a scenario, read an erotic book together, or watch a movie.

6. Try oral sex before. Have him go down on you first. He can get you close or give you an orgasm so you are ready to have another during intercourse. 

7. In general most women need clit stimulation.  If you look at a woman's anatomy the clit sits at the top of the vagina mainly outside under the hood. So it needs to rub against something for the woman to release. If the man is on top, he can move up so his pubic bone is rubbing on her clit while he is inside. Or if she is on top in the Cowgirl position she can grind her clit on him. If this is what will help the woman to release then do it.  Know it is okay for one person the woman or the man to manually play with the clit during intercourse. 

8. Talk, encourage, move. Remember to let your partner know when he is getting it right. If it feels good say so, but be yourself. Move your hips, your body, with your partner. Feel free to touch parts of his body that turn you on. You are taking this journey of pleasure together. Your movements will increase your own pleasure but also tell him you are enjoying yourself and want pleasure and release as much as he does. This is very important to most men.

9. Aftercare. Once you have had intercourse and are laying in each others arms, this is a good time for aftercare and pillow talk. You can tell him how wonderful something he did was so he will know to do it again. I had a girlfriend tell me 20 years ago, "Where did you learn that circular thrusting technique? That is awesome!" Men don't usually forget compliments and comments like that.

10. It is okay if it does not happen. It may take a while to orgasm during intercourse while for some women it may not happen at all. If it does not happen don't worry about it or make it that big of a deal.Trying too hard to make it happen may just leave you sad. Like I mentioned above, there is some great bonding during intercourse even without you both enjoying orgasm. Having and sharing pleasure with your partner is what is most important.

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Hilarious Post.........

Lolade's Corner: BLAST FROM THE PAST

The past should remain just there-in the past,but it does have a way of catching up with us.  Almost everyone has a past,they really wished they could wish away.

Traveling down memory lane is not a favorite pastime of a lot of people,especially if it conjures  some bad or embarrassing incidents.

Growing up was not fun for Jake,his family could barely survive,eating food was a luxury,clothing could only be obtain from samaritans who pass on their used clothes to the church for anyone that might be interested.

Thank God at least they could barely scrape enough to pay for shelter. Of course Jake loved his parents and his siblings were to die for,but how much could a young guy take?
Growing into adolescence meant a change in friends, a wider outlook on life, trying to acquire the swag look, meeting new and interesting girls, trying to better himself and his siblings too and of cause the ever present peer pressure that seems to proceed and en capsule adolescence.......to be continued

UBER COUPLES - The New Speed Dating?

Taxi app Uber recently launched a new 'pool' service, where you can share your cab journey with someone travelling in the same direction.  The side effect has been - in the US at least- that people are chatting each other up on late-night rides.

It's like speed-dating meets getting home - ten minutes with a stranger to chat to before they are on their way.

I think this is going to be a new way of dating as Uber expands this service to other countries where Uber currently operates in.

A Love Story

School friends who lost touch during world War II are set to marry 77 years later.

Rose James, 91, wrote to Ray Seal, 92, last april while he was living in America.

Romance blossomed and the pair are set to wed on May 7 in Market Harborough. Leicestershire. Ray said: 'Rose was a very pretty young girl and not much has changed.'

How sweet is that!!!

Crazy Drunk Girl 'Mocked By Student Sex Attacker'

The former secretary of Durham University's debating society mocked a fellow student after raping her, a court has been told.

According to the Metro Newspaper UK, Louis Richardson is accused of having sex with the woman at his home when she was 'crazy drunk' and unable to consent in March 2014.

The next morning he is said to have told her she was 'rubbish in bed because she was unresponsive', Durham crown court heard
the 21-year-old told police it was 'likely' they had sex after he saw her in Klute nightclub and took her back to his home.

He is also accused of lifting up her top at a friend's house saying: 'Oh get your t**s out...everyone else has seen them.'

Richardson is also charged with attacking another student at a house party in October 2014.  She fell ill and went to sleep in a bedroom but when she woke up to find a man with one hand on her breast and the other over her pants.
When she pushed him off, Paul Cleasby, prosecuting, said Richard replied; if you wanted me to stop you could have asked.'

The defendant, of St Helier, Jersey, denies one charge of rape and three sexual assault.  The trial continue.

Married Men Just Won't Stop......Sigh!!

I enjoyed watching this vlog by a Nigerian lady on how a married Indian guy working in Nigeria tried hitting on her.  Watch her vlog and hear his wife's reaction: Enjoy!!

Lasting Longer in Bed: 7 Tips For Women by Ivy BV

The article on Lasting Longer in Bed - 8 quick tips for men has been popularly read since we posted in November 2015.  If you missed it, HERE it is again for a quick read through.  

An important IvyTrotterChick Blog Visitior (Ivy BV) decided to give some tips on women.  We thought it's worth sharing as a post on it's own.

Here are some thoughts and tips for women in helping their man last longer in bed.

1. If your partner is having trouble lasting longer in bed, the best thing you can do is support him in a loving way. He will probably already feel bad, so do your best to make him feel better and that it does happen sometimes. Even better if he is able to talk to you about it and let you help out in several ways I list below. Most of all ladies do not blame yourself, you can help but it is not your fault.

2. What is your goal in intercourse? If it is mutual orgasm for example than you can help out by making sure he knows what pleases you, when you are getting close, etc. This is where you can really help, but you need to know your own body. If not, then explore with your partner, before intercourse. 

3. Get to know your man. While I see on TV and the internet how important it is for a man to know a woman's anatomy, I feel the same is true for women. Learn to give your man oral or manual stimulation and learn what turns him on. Watch him when he is getting close, and when he orgasms, all of those signs will be present during intercourse. But not just his penis, look at areas on his whole body and what turns him on.
Example: Firm pressure and up and down movement of a woman's hand on my penis will cause me to eventually orgasm. Not all guys are the same, but this is probably true for most men. So when they enter the woman for the first time she is naturally tight (the firm pressure) and begin thrusting (the same as the up and down movement) they are set up to orgasm fairly quickly. 

4. Once you learn what turns your man on, then you can use that knowledge to help him last longer. If he really enjoys your breasts, keep them in your lingerie until you are ready for him to orgasm. Regarding 3 above, have him enter you only after you are very wet, and you will not be as tight. Move your hips and do some side to side thrusting while he is deep inside. In this way there is less in/out movement so he will last longer. 

5. Positions. Explore different positions and you may find ones that he lasts longer than others. For me the doggie position is one I don't last too long at, so I avoid it until near the end of our play. The cowgirl position is great for the woman because she can be on top, control the thrusting, like side to side movement or grinding that I mentioned above. Also she can grab her man's balls and lightly pull them away from his body to help him last longer.

6. Maybe consider starting off with oral to orgasm. His 2nd orgasm will take much longer and cause him to last longer. Or have him give you an oral orgasm and then when he enters you, he is mind is at ease that the goal then is not mutual orgasm just his orgasm and you can use techniques above to help him last longer. 

7. Most of all communication is important. If you can talk about things it is much easier. There are so many things that he can do like cock rings and condoms that help but would be nice to have your approval and smile. It is all about pleasing someone you truly care for in the bedroom. It leads to some deep bonding I feel. 

ES


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Zayn Malik and Gigi Moving Too Fast??

Are Zayn Malik and Gigi Hadid - both popularly referred to as Zigi moving in together? According to US Media Tabloids, the couple could both be taken to the next level.  The new couple sparked speculations they could be moving in together after they were spotted hunting for apartments in New York on Monday afternoon.

Malik and Hadid stirred rumors they are ready to live under the same roof even after only a few months of dating.  According to reports, the pair were photographed visiting apartments that were available for rent along SoHo area.

Before the rumour mill gets into overdrive, a source told E!News that Malik and Hadid are not moving in together.  The source claimed they were just simply looking around for apartments and nothing more.  

The new couple have been open about their relationship since they were spotted holding hands while leaving a posh club in Los Angeles last year in December.  They continue to confirm their romance through their respective instagram accounts.

Zigi first grabbed the dating headlines when they were spotted hanging out several times in November at The Nice Guy in West Hollywood.  Malik was previously engaged to Little Mix singer - Perrie Edwards, and Hadid was in a relationship with Joe Jonas.

City boss 'in sex attacks like Wolf of Wall Street'

 As seen in the Metro Newspaper London, A City boss molested a string of women, with one victim comparing the atmosphere to the film The Wolf Of Wall Street, a court heard yesterday.

Anthony Constantinou is accused of groping three women during  after work drinks between October 2014 and February 2015.

He is alleged to have stuck his tongue into one woman's mouth after remarking to colleagues that she had a 'cracking arse and t***.

The woman said Constantinou pinned her against aparyition and assaulted her in a 'disgusting' manner on February 20 last year, prosecutor Eloise Marshall told the Old Bailey.

Earlier that day, he is said to have thrown her mobile phone against a wall saying: 'Don't answer phones in my meeting.'  The woman said she felt she had been treated like 'a piece of meat' and compared the atmosphere at the Henron Tower office in London to that of leonardo DiCaprio film - The Wolf Of Wall Street.

She left the offices immediately and never returned, said Ms Marshall.  Constantinou, 34, is accused of following another complainant into the toilets, grabbing her face and kissing her.  The court heard he took  the woman into the stock room and sexually assaulted her.
She reported Constantinou, chief executive of corporate business and solutions company CWM, to police.

A third complainant told police the defendant dragged her into a room at the office and kissed her until she pushed him off and left.  At the time, she 'shrugged it off' but later that evening at a nearby bar, she claimed he then squeeze her bottom.
Constantinou, from Barnet , North London, denies six counts of sexual assault.

The trial continues.

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Assault on Women in Germany by Arabs and North Africans ????

German police are hunting for a group of up to a 1,000 men 'of Arab and North African origin' who are accused of sexually assaulting numerous women and causing trouble at Cologne's main station.

Police described the series of sexual assaults against women in Cologne on New Year's Eve as 'a completely new dimension of crime.'

Officers received numerous complaints from women who said they had been assaulted around Cologne's main train station next to the western German city's famous cathedral on the night from Thursday to Friday. Click HERE for more

Couple of Days

A Nigerian movie titled 'Couple of Days' staring selected Nigerian movie Stars, will showcase the life of three couple on a romantic getaway an dhow they deal with the realities of marriage.

You wont believe what this host on 'Come Dine With Me' did

In what has been dubbed as the 'rudest' Come Dine With Me ever, one of the contestant couldn't take being a loser lightly.

Come Dine With Me is a TV program where 4 or 5 strangers come together to entertain one another through their love of food by hosting 3 course meal dinner. A very interesting program, has had it's fair share of hilarious, heated and cringeworthy moments but none like the one that took place on Monday night show.

Host Peter, who had failed to get on with any of his fellow contestant  made sure he made an enemy out of Jane - who won the 1000GBP prize.  Peter launched an almighty tirade at Jane before throwing the other three of the diners out of his house.

Twitter went on melt down this morning

Watch the show after the cut

Miley & Liam ......Back together for real?

Seems like Pop -wild- tweaker is back with her ex-fiance.

For months there's been speculations about a romantic reunion between the two.

According to TMZ, sources in their inner circle mentioned that they weren't surprised to see the exes hanging out together in Australia this weekend, but they've back in each other's lives since Fall.
TMZ further states that the two lovebirds have been in constant communication - texting and FaceTiming and that they never really stopped loving each other despite the break-up.

According to E! online, the singer is back in L.A. and she wouldn't stop gushing about the hot actor and the time they spent together in Australia

It's a Love Story - Desmond Tutu's daughter ties the knot with her fiancee

We love weddings!!!! Archbishop Desmond Tutu's daughter, Rev . Mpho Tutu marries her fiancee Marceline Furth in a civil union in a private ceremony in the Netherlands on New Year's day.

Furth is a professor in pediatric infectious diseases at the Vrije University in Amsterdam.  This is the second marriage for both Tutu and Furth.

Have the Best Year Yet............Happy New Year Ivies

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!